The laws summarized from the New Year gatherings:

In the eyes of relatives, the person you introduce can be ugly, but not poor.
Because they firmly believe that the economic foundation determines the superstructure, and looks are just superficial.
In the eyes of friends, the person you introduce can be poor, but not ugly. Because they think that apart from appearance, everything else can be improved with effort.
But this year I found that all my friends are promoting a "mutual effort" approach—introducing me to guys who are both handsome and wealthy! They always say it's because I deserve the best.
And my inner voice is saying, since ancient times, all men are unreliable, women should have the Mulan spirit. Instead of supporting others' lofty ambitions, it's better to earn my own wealth.
After all, making money on my own is my true "big break"!