Why is it that when children originally want to do something, they immediately lose interest once parents remind them? Because excessive reminders from parents essentially reflect a lack of trust! They use procrastination to resist the feeling of being commanded internally. This applies to relationships between objects, spouses, colleagues—none are exceptions! This is human nature! 1. Something they originally wanted to do becomes something they do only to meet others' demands, hindering personal free will. 2. The feeling of being reminded is unpleasant, as if the person reminding is blaming oneself for not being prepared in advance. 3. The person doing the work is me; you just move your mouth, appearing smart and responsible, and one sentence takes away my credit and effort.