Have you ever encountered someone who uses you while simultaneously suppressing you? They want your abilities but refuse to acknowledge your value; they benefit from your成果 but belittle your努力; they rely on you to support them but step on you beneath their feet. Why is that? Because using you costs nothing, and denying you allows them to extract even more. The biggest risk in such relationships is that the more sensible you are, the more they think you should be; the more you give, the more they feel you deserve it. So, when you encounter such people, always remember these 3 points: 1. When you meet someone who suppresses you, immediately cut off their support. 2. While enjoying your value, you must also demand respect. 3. In relationships where they rely on you but step on you, withdraw immediately.