Have you noticed that what makes you most frustrated is not the bad people, but those who like to control you without bearing the consequences? They don’t have to take responsibility, so they dare to preach moral lessons; they don’t have to pay the price, so they interfere in your life. They won’t get hurt, yet they prefer you to be obedient. In interpersonal relationships, the greatest manipulation is that I don’t take responsibility, and you execute. In the future, set three boundaries for yourself: first, the advice of those who do not share the consequences has no priority. Second, those who cannot bear your risks also cannot define your choices. Third, for all those who want to influence you, you must first ask, what responsibility do you bear for this decision? Therefore, your life should not be controlled by those who have zero cost.